Monday, March 26, 2012

Are We Pakistanis ?


There are times when something strikes my mind with enormous power, a strange question that usually arises whenever I see, feel, realize or be a victim of something most commonly known as DISCRIMINATION !!!

And the question is ARE WE PAKISTANIS?? well, My Straight answer would be NO !!! :) Strange right? but let me explain why did I say that !

We as a nation lacks unity, we can be punjabi, sindhi, balochi, pathan, muhajir etc etc etc !!!but none of us would be “ONLY PAKISTANI:)”I know when I say this thing a lot of friends get emotional and aggressive !that we are Pakistanis and then something else ( like Punjabi, Sindhi etc etc) but My Question is …. Why Do we need anything else after calling ourselves Pakistani :) ?

Let me share a little incident with you;2 years back I was sitting in my class and the topic of discussion among my friends was which of the Cast or Provincial identity is SUPERIOR or is the most ancient :) Everyone gave their opinions how Sindhis from the era of Muhammed Bin Qasim, Punjabis from the Era of Mughals, Balochis from the Era of Changez Khan , Pathan from the era of HAZRAT SULEIMAN (A.S.) etc etc


I kept on listening to this endless and USELESS debate for almost half an hour and to end the debate I quoted something from the Last Sermon of HOLY PROPHET (S.A.W.W.)

“All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action!”


This is my message to the whole nation and especially to all my friends :) Why do we become Pakistani when its 14th August or Cricket World Cup ? why not the whole year ?? ask yourself and you would know that What I am telling is the Bitter Truth !


I remember last time when I saw Unity in Pakistani Nation was way back in September 2006 when we had a natural disaster ( Earth Quake Victims Help Campaigns ) Do we need disasters to keep ourselves united or is there anything that can keep us united without these DISASTERS ?Kindly share your views !!!No offense meant to any cast, provincial identity or any individual

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Life – The Way I See it !

What I am going to share with you all is my own learning of life which I have personally experienced, learned, read, visualized or maybe just imagined and that’s all my thoughts cumulatively and collectively bundled up in a single piece of write up.


What I have learnt from my life:
  • Life is sometimes cruel but it is not intolerable always 
  • One day or the other, everyone is going to hurt you but you have to decide what’s more important the issue or the relation.
  • To avoid jealousy, compete with your own self
As beautifully said by Denis Waitley:
“The most splendid achievement of all is the constant striving to surpass yourself and to be worthy of your own approval”

  • Competition (jealousy) and friendship can’t go hand in hand 
  • Live your best moments with your family and with your friends 
  • Listening to someone’s problems might not lessen it but it surely lessens the pain
  • Spending some time with children will give you eternal happiness, the stupidity, the innocence and the charm when a child holds your hand … these are the moments of Life…. Live them !
  • Start Living…Stop Complaining…Lil things around U give lil happiness but guess what…those all LIL Happiness Collectively makes your day Worthwhile!!! Enjoy little things happening around u and turn your ANOTHER Ordinary day into JUST another Enjoyable day from Now ON 
  • I have learned to care people too much, not because I expect them to care about me in return but because I know the Pain of being Ignored !
  • Ups and downs are the flavor of Life…. just look closer at your heartbeat (ECG)…..and you will that they show that you are ALIVE !!!…. the day they become straight or smooth …..is the day your life ends !!!
  • Going with the flow sometimes work for you but there are times when you feel that the flow was not fast enough to wash away your past !!!
  • Love is nothing but a blindfold, while you are being tied with it, U feel U have become blind in real…you can’t see the rights and wrongs happening around U !!! but suddenly an accident gets the blindfold down and you realize that neither were U blind nor was your every step/decision right !!!
  • Forgive others Smilingly….. it not only gives comfort to other person but also relieves your tension to extreme !!!
  • The bitterest fact life taught me is….. The number of People who are against U will always be more than the number of People who appreciates U 
  • Always Be Yourself….Because the People that matter won’t mind…and the People who mind….. Don’t Matter !!!
  • Life is already very Complicated……….. Do not make it more complex by fighting with your friends 
  • Life means to struggle…better struggle with a smiling face …… to shrug off all the tensions rather then … frowning n getting irritated to increase the frustration
  • U don’t really understand the value of your closed ones … Until…… either U r deeply hurt by them …. or they are going away
  • If Luv is the best feeling in the world…. then I guess….. Friendship is the BESTEST 
  • There’s only one relation in the world……. that is of MOM n a Child !!! Everything else is just a mere compromise….. dependency or sometimes necessity for the time being
  • Its never to late to accept your mistake and repentance,and ALLAH will always forgive !!!
  • Stop Complaining …. There are Millions of People who are Less Privileged then U … Be Grateful to ALLAH … ALWAYS
    What I have learnt from my life:
    Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Forgive today !
    Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Appreciate today !
    Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Make Someone smile today  !
    Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Make others feel valued and Luved today  !
    Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Love today !
    and Most Importantly Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… LIVE Today !!!

    This is my life as I see it, I feel it and I am living it. I am very grateful to ALLAH for everything and I am also thankful to everyone who make my life worth living , Love you all !!!

    I will keep updating this particular blog, since Life is all about continuous learning !!!