Sunday, August 28, 2011

Things change, People change

I’ve learned that things change, people change, and it doesn’t mean you forget the past or try to cover it up;it simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. it means accepting that somethings weren’t meant to be.

Sometimes, I feel like couldn’t let the hurt go, I will thinking about it over and over, this makes me tired.
Now, I know that The best thing to do is to forgive. By forgive the one who hurt you, you release yourself from being held captive to the pain, anger,  bitterness, and from being a slave to that situation. Forgiving the other person allows you to move on. In no way does forgiving makes what they did right or  diminishes the wrong of the other. It simply releases you from the pain and anguish associated to the situation. forgiveness

I will try to remember the most important part of healing in NOT revenge, NOT seeing the other person hurt, NOT getting an apology, but to get healing for MYSELF so that I can build better relationships and not make the same mistakes again.breaking heart.