Life – The Way I See it !

What I am going to share with you all is my own learning of life which I have personally experienced, learned, read, visualized or maybe just imagined and that’s all my thoughts cumulatively and collectively bundled up in a single piece of write up.

What I have learnt from my life:

• Life is sometimes cruel but it is not intolerable always 
• One day or the other, everyone is going to hurt you but you have to decide what’s more important the issue or the relation.
• To avoid jealousy, compete with your own self

As beautifully said by Denis Waitley:

“The most splendid achievement of all is the constant striving to surpass yourself and to be worthy of your own approval”

• Competition (jealousy) and friendship can’t go hand in hand 
• Live your best moments with your family and with your friends 
• Listening to someone’s problems might not lessen it but it surely lessens the pain
• Spending some time with children will give you eternal happiness, the stupidity, the innocence and the charm when a child holds your hand … these are the moments of Life…. Live them !
• Start Living…Stop Complaining…Lil things around U give lil happiness but guess what…those all LIL Happiness Collectively makes your day Worthwhile!!! Enjoy little things happening around u and turn your ANOTHER Ordinary day into JUST another Enjoyable day from Now ON 
• I have learned to care people too much, not because I expect them to care about me in return but because I know the Pain of being Ignored !
• Ups and downs are the flavor of Life…. just look closer at your heartbeat (ECG)…..and you will that they show that you are ALIVE !!!…. the day they become straight or smooth …..is the day your life ends !!!
• Going with the flow sometimes work for you but there are times when you feel that the flow was not fast enough to wash away your past !!!
• Love is nothing but a blindfold, while you are being tied with it, U feel U have become blind in real…you can’t see the rights and wrongs happening around U !!! but suddenly an accident gets the blindfold down and you realize that neither were U blind nor was your every step/decision right !!!
• Forgive others Smilingly….. it not only gives comfort to other person but also relieves your tension to extreme !!!
• The bitterest fact life taught me is….. The number of People who are against U will always be more than the number of People who appreciates U 
• Always Be Yourself….Because the People that matter won’t mind…and the People who mind….. Don’t Matter !!!
• Life is already very Complicated……….. Do not make it more complex by fighting with your friends 
• Life means to struggle…better struggle with a smiling face …… to shrug off all the tensions rather then … frowning n getting irritated to increase the frustration
• U don’t really understand the value of your closed ones … Until…… either U r deeply hurt by them …. or they are going away
• If Luv is the best feeling in the world…. then I guess….. Friendship is the BESTEST 
• There’s only one relation in the world……. that is of MOM n a Child !!! Everything else is just a mere compromise….. dependency or sometimes necessity for the time being
• Its never to late to accept your mistake and repentance,and ALLAH will always forgive !!!
• Stop Complaining …. There are Millions of People who are Less Privileged then U … Be Grateful to ALLAH … ALWAYS

What I have learnt from my life:

Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Forgive today !

Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Appreciate today !

Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Make Someone smile today  !

Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Make others feel valued and Luved today  !

Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Love today !

and Most Importantly Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… LIVE Today !!!

This is my life as I see it, I feel it and I am living it. I am very grateful to ALLAH for everything and I am also thankful to everyone who make my life worth living , Love you all !!!

I will keep updating this particular blog, since Life is all about continuous learning !!!

After Forever

Clouds were very dimly lit, as they absorbed the soothing silver light being bestowed by Moon which has hiding somewhere in the background. I stood there, trying to make sense of different things hidden in the dark. Things I couldn't see and things I could see even if I had my eyes closed.

The darkness was opening up the wounds, bringing out the pain so excruciating, it was ripping me into pieces. Darkness was like a bright Sun over my memories. The loudness of silence was intense and intolerable.

That was the time when I needed you the most, needed you like air, like a desperately thirsty wanderer needs water. But I knew you had gone, never to come back again. How much I wished that I had apologized and called you back in my life, how much I hated myself for letting you go. The pain intensified on the thought that you were never coming back.

There was nothing left in my life, whatever I had wished for throughout my life had gone for good. My only reason for existence had gone, there was no way I was gonna live through this pain. That was the end of me and with me, of all those mistakes, questions, justifications, fights, everything we ever did, all the time we ever spent together and all the dreams which never came true.

This could have been a dream but this time I had so many facts like scattered puzzles which evidenced the reality. Facts which were so inflictive, they rendered me almost numb. But there was no way I could force myself out of this tormenting reality, I had to endure this.

I had lost my focus on what I was doing, I could see but couldn't make sense of anything. Then something caught my attention. There was something in the dark shining like diamonds, I didn't know what that could be but after putting some more effort I could see that those were someone's eyes mirroring my expressions. Those eyes seemed to be as tormented as I was. The shape started to move closer and I was astonished at first. I had never thought that this could be possible, I had never thought in my wildest dreams that I'd ever be able to see 'YOU' again.

You stood there, waiting for my response but what could I do as a response, I was stunned. I somehow managed to get control of my feet and moved towards you. I could clearly see that you had been in a situation no different than mine. I couldn't realize what I actually felt at that time, it was all a shuffle of emotions emanating from my insides.

We sat on a flat rock and there was nothing to talk. Our eyes had exchanged a million expressions in a moment. I promised to never let you go again. While we sat there, clouds started bestowing light drizzles which eventually turned into a heavy shower.

The clouds seemed to be having their turn to tell their sorrows. And we sat there till the first ray of light emanated from East but still, it all felt like a moment. A lifetime seemed too less now.

All I knew now was you were with me and we'll be together forever and after forever !